Love over Ego

If you wish and feel, I invite you to ponder over this reflection;

'Imagine the power of a mighty river, clean and pure receiving rainwater falling from "heaven".

And now imagine that an infinite number of drops that give life to that river had consciousness and each drop is sick of selfishness and fighting with other drops to be more important and unique than the rest. By doing so creating firms of drops that engage in a war competing against each other to get stronger and faster towards the shore, with the intention of appropriating the total riverbed and thus feeling like queens of the channel.

But what would happen? You would lose more and more drops in these clashes to take charge of the channel which would decrease the amount of water stagnating it and consequently losing freshness causing it to rot. Finally these drops, would come to an end, which in this case is to reach the sea or ocean all together to be re-evaporated by heat and taken back to ‘Heaven’ to be again offered to Mother earth (its rivers, which would be the veins and arteries of the earth. and their land to fertilise next with the sun seeds and provide food to the Beings).

We probably all see that it’s absurd that these drops come into a stupid war of egos as at the end they all would lose (and from the beginning also because from the first moment of anguish to survive a continuous torture of tension, stress and burden would grow.)

Well great, we all see it so clearly with the example of the river when it is infact what we do with our own lives.

We believe that we are independent beings and are separate from one another striving to be different and better from others based on; achievements, possessions, beauty, health, titles etc. To help us achieve this our ego pushes us to do anything to possess any aforementioned thing so we can feel different and better than others. Without realising that all we get is to become even more distant from each other (and make no mistake, believing that we do not belong to that group of which I am part of like family, friends, coworkers ... but ultimately this is to get things to be different, the final war of separation either individually or in groups).

In this universe everything is contagious whether it’s for better or for worse. If the game that we all play is the war to be different and better, we must know that in war everyone loses and the contagion will total at the end. 

However if we understand that we all come from the same origin and are all equal. If we understand, help, listen, accept and LOVE one another these natural acts between us will bring us closer. We need to understand to treat others as we ourselves wish to be treated because in the end, we are the others as well us ourselves, we are all ONE.

We all know the horror of war, murder, contamination of land for economic gain ..... but STOP; We need to stop for a moment and FEEL (not just listen and let it go by taking no responsibility and feeling no pain) the senselessness of war!! What are wars for, why are there wars?? Simply because of pure selfishness to feed egos.

All acts that separate man are full of egoism, if the egoism gets changed to LOVE all these atrocities that we are doing to ourselves will disappear.

!!! It is in our hands to change this !!! By being aware to catch our ego in action and when we catch it to change our act from one of ego to an act of LOVE.

And please do not say;

But it is impossible because society is mounted so.

NO NO NO you can’t say that because it is comfortable to avoid facing our selfishness and lacklusterness. If you change the society now has one less infection and one more healthy soul. Remember that you "spread the bacteria" with such behaviour as you will see happiness and harmony surrounding you as you continue your lifestyle to reach the happiness that results from living with LOVE and leaving your ego.

There are many levels of wars, not just ones with big weapons and bombs even though these may seem the most crude and cruel there are however also smaller ones, using deception or lying. Lying for a sale or a job or looking another way just because we want something even if we see an injustice… Finally we all at one level or another must improve and evolve.

With all my love and respect for myself but honestly, I accept and welcome my imperfection as a human being and I am aware of the ego that still remains in me. I WISH and DECREE to keep changing and installing more and more LOVE in my BEING in order to not pollute any more with my actions.

And with each case and if the same thing happens as it did to me, all my love and support to start or to continue your shift to LOVE.

If you allow me and my respect and affection I send

A hug full of LOVE & PEACE

* NO ONE SHOULD FEEL BAD FOR CHECKING YOUR SHORTCOMINGS AND YOUR EGO, CONTINUE TO BE HAPPY AND JOYFUL BUT BE AWARE OF IT SO YOU CAN WORK ON THEM.

!!! Amor En La Vida !!!

Do you know the Power of Appreciation?

First of all I would like to say if you allow me; is that you will not believe what you are about to read. However try it if you feel to do so and if it makes sense, perhaps it can help you. There is nothing better than to try and experience things for yourself rather than to just go by what we try to believe and are told. And there's nothing better than feeling our intention and giving something a try because on many occasions our feelings can lead us to many wonderful things.

So if your intention tells you that it’s not worth reading any further, my advice (if you let me) is to stop reading. However if it is the opposite, then I would like to share something with you.

I personally enjoy the power that giving Thanks brings to me so I want to share with you how it can impact your life.

It's very simple to benefit from the power of gratitude, simply .............. give Thanks to anything you've experienced during the day.

Before going to sleep rather than thinking of all the problems that you may have experienced during the day, change that for the moments worthy of giving thanks to, easy, no?

Perhaps many of you say (as I did at first) thing; but what moments are worthy of thanks to if all remember are the bad ones?

Are you sure?

• Do not remember this morning when you opened your eyes and you could see?
• That first breath that gives you the oxygen that goes into your blood and from there to all your cells to give life to your whole body?
• Putting your feet on the floor and moving your legs to take you to the bathroom by yourself totally independent?
• Turning on a tap and instantly having water to brush your teeth?
• Feeling accompanied by people living with you?
• To be able to open a door of what we call a refrigerator or cupboard and grab some food that is going to provide power to enjoy this physical life (which we do several times during the day!!)??
• Besides having a roof to protect you from the cold rain or wind?
• And if you're aware that you are much more than a piece of meat and lots of magically assembled bones (the body) and to be a divine and wonderful being where we have a physical experience that gives you the opportunity to evolve and grow?

Maybe not all but certainly some of these experiences have occurred during your day, right? Well all of these things you can give Thanks to at the end of the day; all together to feel gratitude and therefore to fall asleep with a much nicer feeling than complaining and negativity. Therefore giving you a much higher quality of sleep!!!

Without realising it we are educated from young to ask and ask and ask and therefore unable to ever feel like enough is enough. Therefore we focus on asking and obtaining something that we can not get and this is where we get stuck like a broken record never stopping complaining and to be constantly dissatisfied.

Questions do not have positive consequences, they cause us anxiety and stress about trying to get something and IF we get it ..... we still have anxiety and stress for the fear of losing it!!

What a crazy scenario!!!

But when we are thankful, the emotions that are created are ones of satisfaction, calmness and positivity.

We realise what a difference there is between asking and complaining and when we give all the Thanks we can!

However, !!! IT'S UP TO YOU !!! It's your life and its you eventually that these feelings are going to benefit.

If you do decide to try giving Thanks, keep a journal, not of two and half days of you doing it, it has to be a minimum of two weeks (14 days). Be disciplined so every night and each time that you are aware throughout the day, simply give Thanks! Keep a journal of all the things you are thankful for throughout these 14 days.

Let me finish by telling you that the last thing I want is to teach you something or to convince you that what you do is wrong; it is NOT my wish because no one has that right (in my opinion). My only wish is to share something that you can do to make your life and existence to live in greater harmony, peace and tranquility.

But as has been said so before do not believe what you're told, just try it if you feel that maybe it can help you and so that you'll know for sure if giving Thanks has a pleasant and positive impact on our lives. 

But remember that the most most most important thing in the life of any human being is !!! LOVE !!!

If I may say so respectfully and send you a hug filled;

LOVE & PEACE